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Archduchess Alexandra Pavlovna of Austria, Princess of Hungary and Bohemia (1783–1801), née Grand Duchess of Russia in traditional Hungarian costume. 1795-1801

Rate the Dress: Gothic Georgian Dream Queen?

I quite enjoyed posting something that wasn’t a full dress for Rate the Dress, so I’ve kept with the theme of slightly offbeat Rate-the-Dress picks this week.

Instead of rating one garment, we’ll be rating a portrait where you really can’t see a huge amount of the wearer’s outfit.  But you can definitely see her vibe.

So, let’s rate the vibe.

(every time I use that word I think of The Castle.)

Last time: A 1873 cape in aniline purple with bobbles

Very, very VERY mixed reviews for the knitted cape.   Everyone could admire the skill, but you definitely weren’t on the same page about the aesthetic.

The Total: 5.9 out of 10

Oof.  However, I’m going to give your thoughts in the comment section 10/10.  So many amazing comments!  I particularly like “fun and at least in the same room as practical.” (what a great descriptor for the kind of clothes I like), but there were so many good observations.  You must go read them!

This time: Alexandra Pavlovna gets her gothic on

Today’s we’re looking at a portrait, and boy is it a mood:

Archduchess Alexandra Pavlovna of Austria, Princess of Hungary and Bohemia (1783–1801), née Grand Duchess of Russia in traditional Hungarian costume. 1795-1801

Alexandra Pavlovna of Russia, Archduchess of Austria, Princess of Hungary and Bohemia (1783–1801)  in traditional Hungarian costume. 1795-1801

Is that not the epitome of late 18th century Gothic drama?  The powdered curls!  The trailing black veil!  The pallor and smokey eye!  The laced bodice and pseudo-religious jewellery! (admittedly this time it’s simply her husband’s house).  My early 2000s university friends could only dream of this level of gothy-ness!

So what’s the story behind this glamorously gloomy painting?

Alex was both very lucky for an 18th century princess, in that by all accounts she had a lovely, happy childhood with adoring, supportive parents (and an overbearing grandmother who definitely said some things to and about her that a modern therapist would have some fun unpicking), and very unlucky, in that her marriage wasn’t quite as lovely.

After a disastrous (Alex was literally left waiting in a wedding dress for four hours while her brethrothed-to-be locked himself in his room) failed engagement to Gustav IV Adolf of Sweden, (goodness, how different European history might have been had Sweden and Russia been allies in the late 18th and early 19th century…) the 15 year old Alex was finally (finally at least according to the standards of her grandmother, who, when Alex turned 11 declared “that summer a girl should be considered an adult.” and “It is time for the older one to get married.”  Eeesh), married to Archduke Joseph of Austria, younger brother of Francis II, Holy Roman Emperor.

Alex and Joseph actually got along fine, but Alex’s Russian Orthodox religion was unpopular at the Austrian court, and she did not get along with her sister in law.  Visitors to the court described her as always “serious and sad.”

Serious and sad is very much what we see in this portrait, foreshadowing Alex’s early death as a result of childbirth less than a year after the paintings completion.  There is one happy thing in the painting: Alex did love Hungary, and she’s shown here in Hungarian dress.

Come back the day after tomorrow for a post all about Hungarian dress from the 16th-19th centuries.

For now, here are two portraits from around the same era as Alex’s portrait that are a good example of what Alex’s whole dress might have looked like.

Portrait of Walburga Csáky (1762-1797), wife of József Andrássy (1762-1834), ca 1790

Portrait of Walburga Csáky (1762-1797), wife of József Andrássy (1762-1834), ca 1790

Portrait of Walburga Csáky (1762-1797) and her son Károly Andrássy (1792-1845), 1794

Portrait of Walburga Csáky (1762-1797) and her son Károly Andrássy (1792-1845), 1794

So, what do you think?  If you’d been going through a teenage goth phase at the end of the 18th century would this lewk have been everything you aspired to?

Rate the Dress on a Scale of 1 to 10

A reminder about rating — feel free to be critical if you don’t like a thing, but make sure that your comments aren’t actually insulting to those who do like a garment.  Phrase criticism as your opinion, rather than a flat fact. Our different tastes are what make Rate the Dress so interesting.  It’s no fun when a comment implies that anyone who doesn’t agree with it, or who would wear a garment, is totally lacking in taste.

As usual, nothing more complicated than a .5.  I also hugely appreciate it if you only do one rating, and set it on a line at the very end of your comment.

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Recipe: Apple Butter in an old-fashioned pressure cooker

By popular demand, here is the apple butter recipe from yesterday’s post.  There are MANY other ‘pressure cooker’ apple butter recipes on the internet, but I found that almost all of them use an Insta-pot or a Ninja or a ‘Fast-Cook-Please-Don’t-Explodalator’ (trying my best to imagine what Leonard of Quirm would have called a pressure cooker).

So here’s one for an old fashioned, no fancy electric settings, pressure cooker.  But you could definitely use an Insta-pot if you have one!

We started with this recipe, but kept adding tweaks until we achieved apple butter perfection.

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Apple butter is basically spiced apple sauce, but cooked until the sugar caramelises.

While we didn’t use that recipe, The Salted Pepper has a ton of fantastic info about making apple butter, how ingredient changes affect it, how thick it should be, how long it lasts, which I highly recommend reading.

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Ingredients:

  • 5 lbs apples peeled, cored, and sliced
  • 1-1.5 cup brown sugar (depending on how sweet the apples are and how sweet you want the apple butter to be – sugar can be added after the initial cooking, so start with a smaller amount)
  • 2 tsp cinnamon (or more.  Cinnamon is measured with the heart).
  • 0.5 tsp nutmeg
  • 0.25 tsp cloves
  • 0.25 tsp cardamon (optional)
  • 0.25 tsp salt
  • 0.5 cup water (may be apple variety and pressure cooker dependent.  We found the apple butter burnt and stuck to the bottom with the .25 cup water in the original recipe.  More water is always safer, because you can cook off too much, but there is no rescuing burnt)

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Cooking:

  1. Mix all ingredients in pressure cooker.
  2. Bring pressure cooker to a full steam, steam for 10 min
  3. Turn off the heat, let it sit and de-pressure for 10 min
  4. Open up the pressure cooker.  The apples should be very soft.
  5. Use an immersion blender to blend it smooooth.
  6. Put it back on the heat and bring to a simmer.  Cook on low, stirring frequently enough to keep it from sticking to the bottom of the pot, until it thickens.  (warning, this can be hours).
  7. Jar the deliciousness.

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Refrigerate for up to 4 weeks or freeze for up to 6 months.

Enjoy on toast, with yoghurt, on ice cream, on porridge, with crackers and cheese…

Apple Bonanza

Growing up in Hawai’i we didn’t do much in the way of preserving food.  Why get hot and sticky and grumpy making jams and jellies when there is so much fresh fruit available all year long?

But I’ve always loved the idea of making preserves, and one of the American things I miss here in NZ is apple butter.

This autumn (which is March here in NZ) I was on a walk with a friend when we discovered an apple tree just loaded with apples growing wild in a public preserve.

Now, the Venn diagram of people who are my friends and people who will enthusiastically scramble down a muddy slope (or would if their mobility allowed it) to pick wild apples is pretty much a circle.

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So, while I held on to her dogs lead, my friend did just that, and came back with two bags full of perfectly ripe, amazingly fragrant apples.

And they were SO good.

Either the apple that got tossed there and sprouted was true to seed, grew a fantastically lucky sport, or was purposely planted, because these apples were delicious and good for everything.  Tart, but not too tart.  Beautifully flavourful.  Crisp and firm, but cooked down to the perfect texture.  Their scent was the absolute essence of apple smell and would make autumn-themed candlemakers green with envy.

I made apple cake and apple pie and ate far more than one apple a day.

Then I got excited, and went back for more apples with different friends.  (and confirmed that a new friend was definitely my kind of friend, because she was SO excited about apple picking!)

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We figure out the perfect bags for picking, and rope systems for making the hillside safer.  I took clippers so I could cut through some of the invasive vines on the hillside and give back to the great outdoors.

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We picked, and picked, going back every few weeks for more apples, because there were SO MANY apples.  I discovered that 13 kilos of apples is exactly the amount I can carry for a kilometer back to the car without seriously thinking about abandoning some.

And other people picked to.  We met them at the tree, and going back from it with bags full of apples.  And still the apples fell until the slope below them was littered with hundreds and hundreds of apples.

In addition to eating apples I gave them away to friends.  Then one friend and I got excited and embarked on the great apple butter making autumn of 2025.

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We peeled and cut the first batch by hand, peeling and cutting and sharing stories.

Then I got clever, and ordered an apple peeler and corer.

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Let me tell you, an apple peeler is basically the adult version of the best toy ever.  Absolutely everyone who tried it squealed with delight the first time they peeled a perfect apple.

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Mine is just a cheap crappy made-in-China one, because I wasn’t sure if I would use it or like it, but now that I know the delights of an apple peeler I’m going to invest in a good one once I can no longer fix and sharpen and jerry-rig this one into working order (it really is very cheaply made).

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But cheap or not, it was satisfying as heck and seriously sped up the process.  We made a big pot of apple butter every weekend for four weekends in a row.

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The fourth week was a little exciting.  Wellington had a windstorm.  A windstorm serious enough to make even Wellington nervous, with Cat 4 hurricane speed winds.  We all got sent home from work, and for weeks after the storm the south side of every tree around town was brown and dead, scoured by salt laden winds.

I went back to check on the tree after the storm, and every last apple was on the ground save 6 poor battered specimens.  Just look at this scarred survivor!

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But scarred or not, it was delicious, and helped make one last batch of apple butter.

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It’s been delightful to be able to give people who give me preserves every year something in return.  It’s also very fun to introduce Kiwis to apple butter.  One described it as ‘like apple pie in a jar.’  Perfect!

It’s also been very interesting to find out which fellow American immigrants are familiar with it or not.  Turns out its not as universally known as I’d assumed.

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It was also nice to do something that wasn’t Scroop or fixing my house related.  I’m trying to improve my work-life balance.

And finally, for another nice work-life balance thing, a Connie update.

I have extremely exciting news on the Connie front…

She touched me!  Voluntarily!

She’s getting noticeably more relaxed and comfortable with me by the day: spending more and more time in the same room, playing in front of me, and just hanging out close to me.  When she hangs out close to me she is clearly very interested in what I’m doing, and what I’m about.  It’s like she wants to be friends but isn’t quite ready to make the move.

Last Thursday night I was sitting on the couch, legs tucked up, working, when she came and settled herself on the pile curtains I’d been putting pinch pleats into and had abandoned on the floor.

I slowly reached out my hand and hung it over the side of the couch, palm out.  She looked at it with interest, and then got up and sniffed it.

I would have been thrilled with just that, but there was more…

She put her paw right in the middle of my palm, so she could rest her weight on it and stand on her hind legs and sniff more of me.

I nearly died of happiness.

And then she just calmly settled back down into the curtains, instead of freaking out at her bravery and bolting.

So I took a photo:

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Soon!  Soon she will allow a pat.  I can feel it.